Love is a beautiful thing but some emotions can be mistaken for love.
Sometimes, in hindsight, we may sigh, beat ourselves up, and shake our heads when we remember the people we dated or thought we loved in the past.
To avoid such situations, it is important to be alert enough to know whether the person you’re currently dating is good for you.
Here are some ways to know you’re dating the wrong person:
Conversing with them is difficult
If you find it difficult to hold a meaningful and interesting conversation with a partner, it’s very much possible you are both not meant to be together.
The power of good conversation is that it allows individuals to learn more about each other and convey their feelings, ideas and
hopes comprehensively.
On the other hand, if it is difficult discussing individual and collective future goals together, you also probably may want to
double-check if your current partner is the person for you.
Feeling low when you’re with them
Every good relationship is one that is filled up with mutual respect, support and encouragement. If your current partner is lacking in any of these qualities, it is high time you thought about your rapport.
No one should ever make you feel less than special, most especially not your partner.
If you always feel less beautiful, less smart, or less human when you’re with your partner, then it’s totally obvious you two are not compatible.
Worse still, if your partner either mentally, physically, verbally or emotionally abuses you, it’s best you flee the relationship.
Dating is designed for individuals to learn from, love, grow together all-round, and be happy in. Any relationship causing you sadness, depression, anxiety and torment should be discontinued.
They’re too clingy
We all want attention, especially from that special someone. But like every other thing known to man, too much of everything is unhealthy. A partner that is too clingy is a big no-no.
It’s cute and adorable when a partner calls or texts several times a day to check up on you but when a partner begins to constantly want your 24-hour day to day attention, maybe it’s time to pause and question if you really want to be dating that person.
A jealous partner will never trust you and will constantly find a means to blame you for things. Never, ever think a jealous partner will change overnight because they won’t.
They never seem to listen to you
At the top of the list of relationship killers is ineffective communication and this involves listening.
If your partner is never interested in what you have to say, then that’s a big problem. Chances are that such partners will come in between your dreams, goals and aspirations, often dismissing them.
Some partners may even go as far as pretending they listen to you but deep down, you know they don’t. If you feel this way, maybe it’s time to back out.
Your gut feeling tells you the relationship is not working. If your intuition repeatedly tells you something is not right with the person you’re dating, chances are, you might be right.
It’s never enough to ignore the way our minds feel about others, especially someone we are dating and serious with.
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Please I want to ask if your man is having sex with you then he tells you that he’s sexing you today that he ‘s seeing you because he doesn’t know who will marry you tomorrow does it mean that he wants to marry you?.
Maybe he’s scares over ur reaction towards his intentions
It means he wants to enjoy you well while the relationship lasts. He doesn’t see a future in the relationship
HW do I know boyfriend love me and he want to marry me?
No.
In fact he is irresponsible and not a type you should think of marrying.
That is one of the reasons one should shun sex before marriage. Sex before marriage reduces your chances of you getting a man that will marry you for who you really are. Having sex before make you lose respect most often. http://ags.com.ng
No ,
But deciving u
Please how do I make my boyfriend to want to marry me, please I sincerely need ideas that work.
I need an answered to dis questio n, if i am a virgin and my boyfriend lov sex and i dont want to do it but i cant bear to see him with another girl.so i decided to allow him bcs i dont want to loss him. Dat means he kwns dat he is d one dat disvirgin me ryt.but i dont understand why he keep suspecting me all d time, i dont get it dis is lack of trust i dont kwn wat to do bcs am tired of it so pls tell me,is it that he lov me too much dat he dont want to loss me or he is doing somtin wrong and he dont want me to kwn
At first if he truly loves u, he will wait, …..its still not too bad though.
make him see reasons that u aren’t cheating on him.
Secondly; Have it at the far back of ur mind that ur first love isn’t always ur true luv…hope u can assimilate this pls. don’t get it twisted
I have seen many first love that turned out to be true love💯💯
if ur boy friend is always suspecting u its bcos u have open leg for him and now he thinks u are sharing d tin. if u can give it to him u can equally give it to another. . don’t worry. it is common psychology. what u will do is that u will stop giving him d tin. give ur life to God and tell God u are sorry. life can be very miserable without deep insight abt life. live u dear
God bless u
You should never get married to a man who does not trust u.
Moreover it’s stupid to give out your virginity to a boyfriend thinking it can stop him from sleeping with another woman. A good man who loves you will not temper with your virginity before marriage. A thief remains a theif.
pls. hw can I back out from a relationship dat there is no love. pls. I need an answer to dis question.
its starts by reducing communication
Upon all this, how can someone knows a girl that love you? because some do pretend.
What are the sign of a ture love
Please I really need an answer to this.
My boyfriend has a girl he was dating before me. I thought he ended things with her as he promised, but I later found out they are still together. I tried telling him about it, and he said I should focus on what we have and stop thinking about it. He also said that he was dating her before me. So he can’t just break up with her for nothing.