My way or the highway

YouNow is created for the everyday individual who seeks to gain a deeper understanding of Self in order to achieve their highest potential, while staying true to their essence. These write-ups are designed to help you become more conscious and deliberate in your interactions and day-to-day living.

Individuality and the snare of rebellion…

That’s just the way I am. I can’t help it. You either take it, or leave it. Yes? …No!

The term ‘take me as I am’ is no excuse for stagnation in self-appraisal and self-development.  It does not give the liberty for mediocrity or unnecessary superiority.

Individuality is difference, individuality is uniqueness, it’s also distinction. However, It is not egoistic or selfish. It does not struggle for attention. It does not struggle to be heard. Individuality in itself is a voice. It speaks of self, distinct enough to consciously and creatively communicate and engage to deliver value.

You have the ability to guide the way other people see you, to your advantage.

Individuality is value; Value to your world.

Humility in the knowledge that you know, openness to the wisdom you do not know. In that which you know and in that which you do not know, it is a willingness to be vulnerable.

The strength of character to be sincere…

That, is individuality.

Remember Freedom is Peace, Optimism is Nature. Action is always within reach

Bankole-Bernard is a New York City trained Relationship, style and image coach and a corporate image consultant certified in Las Vegas.

 Connect with her on Instagram  @identitycoach

Twitter @identitycoach1

Facebook @YBBtheidentitycoach

For more info, visit   www.yetundebernard.com